For some reasons it is quite the problem in a relationship, by a relationship i meant friendship or even more than that… Let’s face the facts, when a new person is introduced to you, you will feel like being a good version of yourself to give a greater impression, now that’s a bad thing to do to me, cause it wont ever suceed, i read people’s negativity and their personalit easily, but then to other people, it’s like a reflex, why?
Well, people these days, most of them lack love, most of them lack friends and by doing so they think that they can get what they want, i think it’s wrong. I think when you want to look for a friend that understands you, you really should be yourself, that way you’ll know that these people are the one that can accept you for who you are, not for the good part of you.
Even in a relationship, this is a huge problem, most guys/girls, wouldn’t want to continue a relationship where the partner doesn’t change, but hasn’t it strikes their mind, that maybe they’re gf/bf accept them for who they are, and yet they can’t accept some of the negativity that the other have, this a problem and most relationship breaks off because of this exact problem, and i think when you are faced with this dillema, THEN you should find someone that accept you for who you are, Even if you act ganjen, even if you are ignorant, even if you go to club and get high, if they don’t like it, then they should do their best to bring the other person to the right path, not by leaving them, because then that’s not love, but just a crush and the physical attraction that they are interested to.
I think it is best to know someone to an extent that you can accept them, THEN you go out with them.. well then again, i might be wrong.
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