Seriously, what the hell is wrong with people these days, what’s wrong with commitments? I mean, is it something really hard to achieve? is it a sin to be committed to each other? Is it something that people shouldn’t do when they’re 18?! WHAT IS IT?!
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Let me tell you my own piece of mind, there’s absolutely nothing wrong in being committed with your partner, loh i mean seriously, does age really matters? i mean, sure girls/guys wants to have fun, but when they’re with each other, u don’t fool around… Someone told me, that she was young and she wanted to have fun and goof around.. Now in a context, let me ask you people, does the term “goof around” equals to “cheating”?, In my dictionary, THAT IS NOT THE CASE, by goofing around, is that you flirt with people, you do things that tells them that well, you wanted to have fun, but not by the means of cheating with other, that’s wrong.
So the question would be, how do i keep my partner from being afraid of commitment, well i guess there are no other ways than one, you really have to sho them that you are everything for them, that you could be the best, nothing but the best.
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Another question, what if some idiotic people relates commitment to marriage? Well for goodness sake, being committed doesn’t mean marriage, being committed just meant that you believe and trust each other, and not do stupid things that hurts each other, Marriage is different, marriage is actually having to really stay in that one relationship for the rest of your life
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But then, what’s the limitation of commitment in a relationship? EASY, when you find someone better, and he/she could make u happier, then that’s a good enough reason for you to ditch them and tell them that you’ve found someone better, and in the process, u give them the time to prove you wrong, kalo ga bisa, ya udah. Again, i have to stress the point that, what i’ve just said, is NOT cheating! It’s called giving chances and actually stay committed to each other, and once it failed, THEN you’ll run and look for a better one. kok susah?
and one more thing people, keep this in mind! You love someone.. sure.. but then you change as time goes by, well obviously, we’re all still young, (if you consider being 20+ is young then you’ll dig what im saying), you don’t give up, you accept that no matter how hard it is. You don’t look for reasons to stop loving each other just because they’re not the same person you went on board with… You don’t just stop accepting who they are, you learn to accept them, you learn to forgive their mistakes in the process of changing, and you accept the fact that you are with each other.. I mean, how hard is that?
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Well i just think it’s ridiculous for someone to be so idiotic, to not understand the word Commitment itself, once you’re in a long term relationship, it doesn’t meant that it shouldn’t end, but if it meant to not work, then at least break it off with a sensible thing to do. Don’t look for reasons and judge others when you can’t look within yourself and notice how many black spots of lies exists in the fragment of your thoughts.. And once you do that, THEN lecture me.
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